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你是世上最衰的园长(组图)

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(《在)(幼)(儿)(园)(和)(你)(一)(起)(长)(》作)(者)(:粲)(然)(版)(本)(:重)(庆)(出)(版)(社)(2016年)(1月)(  作)(为)(粲)(然)(的)(资)(深)(脑)(残)(粉)(,我)(默)(默)(关)(注)(她)(好)(多)(年)(了)(。起)(先)(,只)(是)(被)(她)(的)(摇)(曳)(多)(姿)(的)(汉)(语)(所)(俘)(获)(,她)(汉)(语)(的)(好)(,是)(一)(种)(完)(全)(蛮)(不)(讲)(理)(的)(好)(,一)(点)(也)(不)(多)(愁)(善)(感)(,一)(点)(也)(不)(忸)(怩)(作)(态)(,一)(点)(也)(不)(藏)(着)(掖)(着)(,就)(直)(接)(到)(达)(了)(汉)(语)(表)(达)(的)(某)(个)(极)(致)(之)(境)(。之)(后)(,粲)(然)(成)(了)(一)(个)(魅)(力)(辣)(妈)(,两)(本)(《骑)(鲸)(之)(旅)(》和)(一)(本)(《你)(是)(世)(上)(最)(美)(的)(妈)(妈)(》,大)(概)(就)(是)(满)(心)(喜)(悦)(,一)(腔)(爱)(意)(的)(真)(实)(表)(达)(。我)(曾)(说)(粲)(然)(是)(中)(国)(几)(乎)(唯)(一)(的)(毫)(无)(包)(袱)(,只)(是)(欢)(喜)(,理)(直)(气)(壮)(享)(受)(亲)(子)(之)(爱)(的)(新)(型)(妈)(妈)(。  她)(不)(是)(传)(统)(式)(的)(  中)(国)(妈)(妈)(  传)(统)(的)(中)(国)(式)(妈)(妈)(基)(本)(上)(只)(有)(三)(种)(,一)(种)(是)(孟)(子)(的)(妈)(妈)(,要)(搬)(家)(的)(;一)(种)(是)(岳)(飞)(的)(妈)(妈)(,要)(刺)(字)(的)(;还)(有)(一)(种)(是)(孟)(郊)(的)(妈)(妈)(,做)(衣)(服)(的)(。此)(三)(种)(妈)(妈)(,似)(乎)(当)(妈)(的)(表)(现)(各)(异)(,但)(我)(们)(想)(起)(她)(们)(时)(,其)(形)(象)(却)(出)(奇)(地)(相)(似)(,一)(言)(以)(蔽)(之)(:悲)(情)(。传)(统)(的)(中)(国)(妈)(妈)(几)(乎)(一)(直)(都)(是)(以)(苦)(大)(仇)(深)(的)(表)(情)(出)(现)(的)(,含)(辛)(茹)(苦)(,自)(我)(牺)(牲)(,以)(成)(全)(家)(庭)(或)(者)(孩)(子)(。这)(种)(牺)(牲)(的)(核)(心)(在)(哪)(里)(?究)(其)(根)(本)(,其)(实)(只)(有)(两)(个)(字)(:控)(制)(。孟)(子)(的)(妈)(妈)(搬)(家)(,是)(为)(了)(控)(制)(对)(孟)(子)(的)(教)(育)(权)(;而)(刺)(字)(的)(妈)(妈)(,则)(是)(为)(了)(将)(价)(值)(观)(输)(送)(给)(孩)(子)(,乃)(至)(深)(入)(其)(肌)(理)(。孟)(郊)(的)(妈)(妈)(似)(乎)(比)(较)(温)(和)(一)(点)(,至)(少)(只)(是)(在)(做)(衣)(服)(,但)(悲)(情)(的)(杀)(伤)(力)(其)(实)(更)(大)(,游)(子)(要)(是)(真)(的)(“迟)(迟)(不)(归)(”,良)(心)(上)(的)(煎)(熬)(,恐)(怕)(更)(甚)(。我)(这)(里)(当)(然)(不)(是)(责)(备)(妈)(妈)(,因)(为)(母)(亲)(也)(饱)(尝)(痛)(苦)(,我)(只)(是)(想)(要)(说)(明)(,在)(传)(统)(中)(国)(家)(庭)(的)(亲)(子)(关)(系)(里)(,“控)(制)(”一)(向)(是)(不)(缺)(的)(。中)(国)(式)(母)(亲)(含)(辛)(茹)(苦)(、自)(我)(牺)(牲)(的)(背)(后)(,我)(们)(发)(现)(了)(一)(种)(叫)(做)(“情)(感)(绑)(架)(”的)(东)(西)(。  但)(值)(得)(庆)(幸)(的)(是)(,现)(在)(,至)(少)(我)(们)(有)(粲)(然)(了)(。她)(一)(点)(悲)(情)(也)(没)(有)(,她)(所)(作)(所)(为)(的)(一)(切)(,没)(有)(一)(件)(被)(她)(看)(作)(是)(为)(了)(孩)(子)(而)(作)(出)(的)(“牺)(牲)(”,她)(只)(是)(在)(享)(受)(这)(一)(段)(甜)(蜜)(的)(亲)(子)(共)(处)(的)(旅)(程)(。于)(是)(,看)(她)(家)(米)(尼)(日)(渐)(成)(长)(,成)(为)(一)(个)(有)(腔)(调)(的)(小)(孩)(,这)(是)(多)(么)(快)(乐)(,多)(么)(令)(人)(神)(往)(的)(场)(景)(。米)(尼)(在)(清)(明)(节)(随)(长)(辈)(扫)(墓)(祭)(祖)(,看)(到)(烧)(纸)(钱)(,就)(问)(,这)(是)(做)(啥)(。听)(到)(回)(答)(这)(是)(烧)(给)(先)(人)(的)(纸)(钱)(之)(后)(,非)(常)(愤)(怒)(,说)(,你)(们)(好)(坏)(,给)(他)(这)(么)(一)(点)(钱)(,就)(让)(他)(在)(这)(里)(躺)(一)(年)(。这)(种)(对)(白)(,完)(全)(是)(毫)(无)(负)(担)(的)(家)(庭)(环)(境)(之)(中)(长)(大)(的)(孩)(子)(才)(能)(拥)(有)(的)(。而)(且)(,这)(样)(的)(奇)(思)(妙)(语)(,竟)(然)(没)(有)(被)(看)(做)(亵)(渎)(先)(人)(,这)(是)(个)(什)(么)(样)(的)(家)(庭)(啊)(。  我)(们)(菜)(虫)(一)(年)(级)(时)(,他)(一)(个)(女)(同)(学)(来)(家)(玩)(,安)(排)(他)(俩)(在)(书)(房)(做)(作)(业)(之)(后)(,我)(就)(去)(做)(饭)(了)(。过)(了)(一)(会)(,小)(女)(孩)(悄)(悄)(地)(跑)(过)(来)(,忧)(心)(忡)(忡)(地)(对)(我)(说)(:蔡)(叔)(叔)(,我)(妈)(妈)(说)(,一)(个)(家)(里)(如)(果)(男)(人)(做)(饭)(的)(话)(,那)(这)(个)(家)(要)(不)(好)(的)(。听)(完)(此)(语)(,我)(瞬)(间)(石)(化)(。在)(这)(个)(小)(女)(孩)(身)(上)(,那)(种)(价)(值)(观)(念)(的)(塑)(造)(,已)(经)(开)(始)(奏)(效)(了)(。  她)(靠)(卖)(山)(货)(自)(己)(办)(了)(个)(幼)(儿)(园)(  故)(而)(,这)(样)(的)(一)(个)(神)(奇)(的)(粲)(然)(,她)(突)(发)(奇)(想)(,去)(创)(办)(“三)(五)(锄)(”这)(样)(一)(个)(幼)(儿)(园)(,在)(我)(看)(来)(,也)(是)(一)(件)(水)(到)(渠)(成)(、顺)(理)(成)(章)(的)(事)(情)(。可)(惜)(,事)(情)(本)(身)(并)(不)(是)(这)(样)(的)(。  现)(在)(,我)(们)(看)(到)(的)(这)(本)(与)(“三)(五)(锄)(”相)(关)(的)(书)(,书)(写)(的)(,完)(全)(不)(是)(这)(种)(英)(雄)(赞)(歌)(式)(的)(自)(我)(吹)(嘘)(,粲)(然)(没)(有)(创)(办)(幼)(儿)(园)(的)(成)(功)(与)(辉)(煌)(,她)(有)(很)(多)(沉)(痛)(的)(教)(训)(,却)(没)(有)(多)(少)(可)(成)(为)(他)(山)(之)(石)(的)(经)(验)(。这)(不)(是)(一)(本)(成)(功)(学)(,更)(不)(是)(一)(本)(育)(儿)(鸡)(汤)(,别)(人)(在)(说)(“我)(的)(成)(功)(你)(可)(以)(复)(制)(”时)(,粲)(然)(告)(诉)(大)(家)(,她)(的)(不)(成)(功)(你)(不)(可)(以)(复)(制)(。这)(个)(叫)(“三)(五)(锄)(”的)(幼)(儿)(园)(,到)(目)(前)(为)(止)(还)(没)(有)(持)(平)(,需)(要)(创)(办)(人)(以)(别)(的)(方)(式)(赚)(钱)(来)(补)(贴)(。这)(个)(幼)(儿)(园)(收)(获)(粉)(丝)(无)(限)(,学)(员)(却)(始)(终)(只)(有)(两)(位)(数)(。  粲)(然)(坦)(然)(面)(对)(一)(桩)(桩)(此)(前)(生)(命)(中)(从)(未)(遭)(遇)(过)(的)(崭)(新)(的)(困)(境)(,反)(躬)(自)(省)(,带)(着)(自)(我)(调)(侃)(,娓)(娓)(道)(来)(。波)(澜)(不)(惊)(的)(叙)(述)(之)(下)(,是)(克)(制)(的)(笔)(墨)(,将)(自)(己)(的)(无)(奈)(、无)(力)(与)(无)(能)(,呈)(之)(于)(众)(人)(之)(前)(。比)(如)(,首)(先)(是)(没)(钱)(。第)(一)(笔)(投)(资)(款)(,其)(实)(是)(最)(重)(要)(的)(。粲)(然)(和)(她)(的)(合)(伙)(人)(想)(到)(了)(一)(个)(掘)(第)(一)(桶)(金)(的)(天)(才)(办)(法)(——卖)(山)(货)(。就)(这)(样)(,他)(们)(一)(边)(包)(装)(山)(货)(,一)(边)(写)(地)(址)(,一)(边)(找)(快)(递)(,没)(空)(理)(米)(尼)(和)(翅)(膀)(,米)(尼)(和)(翅)(膀)(就)(在)(堆)(积)(如)(山)(的)(山)(货)(堆)(里)(,爬)(来)(爬)(去)(。  至)(于)(之)(后)(遇)(到)(的)(各)(种)(人)(事)(之)(困)(,简)(直)(罄)(竹)(难)(书)(。粲)(然)(书)(写)(的)(,并)(非)(她)(一)(个)(人)(的)(勇)(敢)(传)(说)(。相)(反)(,我)(们)(看)(到)(的)(,更)(多)(的)(是)(一)(个)(充)(满)(了)(挫)(折)(、失)(败)(、焦)(虑)(、无)(助)(,以)(及)(时)(时)(生)(出)(退)(隐)(之)(心)(的)(粲)(然)(。所)(以)(,与)(其)(说)(这)(是)(粲)(然)(办)(幼)(儿)(园)(的)(经)(验)(之)(谈)(,毋)(宁)(说)(,这)(是)(粲)(然)(个)(人)(的)(“失)(败)(之)(书)(”。然)(而)(粲)(然)(的)(英)(雄)(气)(概)(就)(在)(这)(里)(:她)(承)(认)(自)(己)(的)(无)(能)(,却)(要)(从)(无)(能)(之)(中)(生)(出)(最)(大)(的)(能)(;她)(也)(经)(常)(被)(无)(力)(感)(缠)(绕)(,却)(时)(时)(给)(读)(者)(以)(最)(充)(沛)(的)(力)(。  她)(想)(让)(孩)(子)(们)(生)(活)(在)(山)(海)(间)(  我)(戏)(言)(,粲)(然)(的)(幼)(儿)(园)(完)(全)(没)(有)(“理)(念)(”。作)(为)(知)(识)(者)(的)(新)(一)(代)(父)(母)(,在)(为)(孩)(子)(们)(找)(幼)(儿)(园)(的)(时)(候)(,总)(是)(百)(般)(挑)(剔)(,要)(为)(孩)(子)(找)(一)(个)(完)(美)(的)(所)(在)(,似)(乎)(这)(样)(才)(对)(得)(起)(这)(个)(天)(赐)(的)(精)(灵)(。那)(么)(,教)(育)(理)(念)(,就)(是)(知)(识)(型)(家)(长)(第)(一)(个)(需)(要)(认)(同)(的)(东)(西)(。粲)(然)(与)(她)(的)(三)(五)(锄)(,却)(没)(有)(一)(个)(说)(起)(来)(头)(头)(是)(道)(的)(成)(文)(的)(所)(谓)(“理)(念)(”,好)(像)(他)(们)(唯)(一)(拥)(有)(的)(,就)(是)(浪)(漫)(。  三)(五)(锄)(选)(址)(的)(标)(准)(是)(:“一)(定)(要)(让)(我)(们)(的)(孩)(子)(生)(活)(在)(山)(海)(间)(。”这)(句)(话)(是)(该)(书)(第)(19页)(的)(小)(标)(题)(。看)(到)(这)(里)(我)(确)(实)(笑)(出)(声)(了)(,因)(为)(想)(起)(我)(给)(菜)(虫)(选)(小)(学)(的)(标)(准)(:选)(那)(个)(建)(在)(公)(园)(里)(的)(小)(学)(。但)(转)(念)(一)(想)(,这)(不)(正)(是)(我)(们)(的)(理)(念)(吗)(?而)(且)(是)(最)(为)(根)(本)(的)(教)(育)(理)(念)(。这)(个)(理)(念)(扎)(根)(在)(生)(命)(的)(深)(刻)(体)(验)(之)(中)(,源)(出)(于)(我)(们)(最)(深)(处)(的)(冲)(动)(与)(感)(悟)(,出)(自)(于)(我)(们)(对)(人)(生)(最)(为)(真)(挚)(的)(热)(爱)(与)(热)(望)(。并)(且)(,“生)(活)(在)(山)(与)(海)(之)(间)(”,这)(样)(诗)(性)(的)(表)(达)(,是)(活)(生)(生)(的)(,带)(着)(生)(命)(的)(能)(量)(,又)(直)(接)(到)(达)(本)(质)(之)(处)(。还)(有)(什)(么)(理)(念)(,比)(这)(个)(更)(加)(高)(大)(上)(的)(?  其)(实)(,直)(觉)(与)(天)(赋)(这)(样)(的)(词)(汇)(,都)(是)(误)(导)(。哪)(有)(什)(么)(天)(赋)(,读)(完)(这)(本)(书)(,你)(就)(会)(知)(道)(,在)(这)(些)(观)(念)(的)(形)(成)(过)(程)(之)(中)(,粲)(然)(付)(出)(了)(多)(少)(努)(力)(,她)(读)(书)(,读)(各)(种)(书)(,她)(思)(考)(,殚)(精)(竭)(虑)(,她)(做)(出)(的)(崭)(新)(的)(儿)(童)(教)(育)(的)(尝)(试)(,脑)(洞)(大)(开)(,而)(又)(有)(理)(有)(据)(——谁)(说)(三)(五)(锄)(没)(有)(理)(念)(,如)(吉)(光)(片)(羽)(俯)(拾)(皆)(是)(。他)(们)(做)(的)(每)(件)(事)(,每)(一)(堂)(课)(,都)(建)(立)(在)(科)(学)(、理)(论)(、研)(究)(、创)(造)(之)(上)(。可)(以)(负)(责)(任)(地)(说)(,在)(他)(们)(这)(么)(做)(之)(前)(,这)(样)(的)(教)(育)(,几)(乎)(全)(都)(付)(诸)(阙)(如)(。  为)(每)(个)(孩)(子)(的)(名)(字)(,编)(一)(个)(童)(话)(。这)(对)(这)(个)(孩)(子)(多)(么)(重)(要)(。这)(就)(是)(三)(五)(锄)(字)(画)(课)(第)(二)(节)(课)(:“人)(一)(生)(最)(重)(要)(的)(字)(——你)(名)(字)(的)(故)(事)(”。  那)(个)(叫)(童)(童)(的)(姑)(娘)(,她)(必)(将)(知)(道)(:“改)(变)(你)(生)(活)(的)(力)(量)(,不)(在)(任)(何)(人)(手)(上)(,在)(你)(身)(体)(里)(。是)(你)(的)(头)(发)(,你)(的)(心)(。”那)(个)(叫)(翅)(膀)(的)(爱)(跳)(舞)(的)(小)(姑)(娘)(,“边)(跳)(着)(舞)(,你)(的)(心)(里)(一)(定)(不)(止)(是)(你)(自)(己)(。一)(定)(是)(有)(蓝)(色)(的)(天)(、有)(宽)(广)(的)(大)(地)(、有)(爱)(你)(的)(人)(”。还)(有)(米)(尼)(,这)(个)(迷)(人)(的)(小)(男)(孩)(。粲)(然)(说)(:“他)(看)(见)(过)(黑)(暗)(,他)(理)(解)(黑)(暗)(,却)(坚)(决)(朝)(着)(光)(明)(走)(,这)(是)(所)(有)(勇)(气)(中)(最)(大)(的)(勇)(气)(,所)(有)(毅)(力)(中)(最)(大)(的)(毅)(力)(,所)(有)(了)(不)(起)(中)(最)(大)(的)(了)(不)(起)(。你)(能)(感)(觉)(得)(到)(吗)(?”我)(不)(能)(否)(认)(,我)(是)(噙)(着)(泪)(读)(完)(这)(个)(故)(事)(的)(,我)(了)(解)(,粲)(然)(对)(米)(尼)(说)(的)(,也)(正)(是)(她)(想)(要)(对)(自)(己)(说)(的)(,也)(是)(想)(要)(对)(那)(些)(爱)(她)(的)(读)(者)(说)(的)(。粲)(然)(喜)(欢)(的)(欧)(文)(亚)(隆)(说)(过)(,每)(一)(段)(悲)(伤)(都)(在)(酝)(酿)(觉)(醒)(体)(验)(。正)(如)(粲)(然)(所)(经)(历)(的)(那)(一)(切)(一)(样)(:承)(受)(艰)(难)(,而)(勇)(气)(,仍)(然)(在)(我)(们)(手)(中)(。  粲)(然)(说)(,每)(一)(个)(童)(话)(都)(有)(深)(远)(的)(寓)(意)(,这)(些)(辽)(远)(、乃)(至)(深)(入)(无)(意)(识)(的)(寓)(意)(不)(仅)(限)(于)(我)(告)(诉)(他)(们)(的)(,还)(有)(更)(多)(的)(面)(向)(,值)(得)(他)(们)(在)(自)(己)(成)(长)(体)(悟)(中)(,一)(步)(步)(、一)(点)(点)(、开)(垦)(、融)(合)(、感)(知)(、洞)(见)(。这)(便)(是)(这)(堂)(无)(与)(伦)(比)(的)(字)(画)(课)(的)(教)(育)(理)(念)(。这)(个)(简)(短)(的)(教)(育)(叙)(事)(,令)(人)(唇)(齿)(留)(香)(,又)(感)(动)(莫)(名)(。谁)(有)(这)(样)(的)(福)(分)(,能)(够)(在)(他)(童)(蒙)(的)(时)(期)(,便)(经)(历)(这)(样)(无)(私)(的)(、充)(满)(爱)(意)(的)(亲)(密)(相)(处)(呢)(?哦)(,三)(五)(锄)(的)(孩)(子)(有)(福)(了)(,因)(为)(他)(们)(必)(得)(童)(话)(永)(恒)(的)(温)(暖)(光)(照)(!  而)(唏)(嘘)(不)(已)(的)(读)(者)(,也)(希)(望)(借)(此)(传)(达)(对)(美)(好)(教)(育)(的)(祝)(愿)(:祝)(愿)(你)(们)(的)(名)(字)(,像)(所)(有)(伟)(大)(的)(生)(命)(传)(奇)(一)(样)(,随)(风)(颂)(扬)(,无)(远)(弗)(届)(。  书)(评)(人)(蔡)(朝)(阳)(
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